A guy’s point of view

Q) How do I know if a guy is flirting with me?

A) It really depends on the type of guy and his individual personality but here are some clues…

He may be watching you but when you look his direction he immediately looks a way.  Or he may talk to everyone but you.  It’s like he wants to pay attention to you but doesn’t know how to do this. Most of us guys have a lot on our shoulders, I mean we want to be the man and take the lead here but it’s not always that easy.  So sometimes we are just awkward around you, our face turns red and our behavior changes when you are near us. We may tease and make you feel like we are picking on you but it’s because we really like you.

Q) How do I stay in touch with my crush over the summer without looking like some creepy stalker?

A) Nobody wants to feel like they are being stalked so keep it light and casual.

If you’ve met the crush through a group of friends then stay in touch with that group of friends. Hang out with them so when you do see your special someone again it’ll be in a comfortable and casual situation.If you are not already friends on your social networking site then add them and be relaxed about it.  You want them to know how fun you are and want to spend time with you.  The key here is don’t stress over him!

Q) What are some fun, affordable things to do on a date?

A)   Guys welcome the idea of you taking the lead here and coming up with plans! Here are some things guys like to do:

Picnics are always fun day or night.  Hang out and do some star gazing.   Don’t be afraid to get active; playing Frisbee or catch can be really fun! Playing miniature golf is always a good time; add another couple or two and it’s a party!

Grab some ice-cream and hang out at a plaza and people watch.

Be a tourist in your own city.  Go on line and look up all kinds of fun inexpensive things to do on your summer staycation.

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